Some Thoughts about the HandMade process

A handmade process requires time, patience, and skills applied with focused attention. The artisan defines the goals, gains experience through instruction and practice, and develops the wisdom to make constant adjustments to the method in which tools and techniques are utilized. No two works are ever the same.

I believe the work that takes place in counseling can only be done in this manner. You are unique. Understanding the story that shaped you, addressing the parts that may need repair, crafting the change and growth that is still to happen, and practicing the maintenance required for lasting health: none of this process can be automated and shortcuts do not yield sustained results. It is the effort that adds the value.

I would invite you to consider your experience in therapy as an apprenticeship.

My commitment is to support you in working on your life, your relationships, your family- but you are the artisan in this metaphor.

Here’s to a life well crafted, and the handmade approach we must all take to get there.

-Mike

Faith in Practice

There are many theoretical approaches a counseling provider may use when determining how to conceptualize and direct the course of treatment. Oftentimes a provider’s own worldview will determine the methods and approach they choose to utilize and act to further shape their development of additional treatment specializations. It is fair to say that some techniques are more universal than others; rooted in scientific or empirically derived conclusions about the human experience and the healing process. Others may be implicitly connected to a particular faith or belief system about the nature of reality, what it means to be human, where the power to heal or change comes from, and perhaps even what the definition of ‘healthy’ looks like.

If you don’t have answers to life’s larger philosophical questions don’t worry- that’s totally fine. But please be aware that as counselors we have an ethical obligation to provide services that are respectful of your own personally held beliefs, and to appropriately disclose our own views so that you can be aware of the potential for bias on our part and proceed with greater transparency in your selection of a therapist. 

I, personally, identify as a Christian.  My faith is and has been foundational in my life, my own healing and growth, and the work that I pursue.  My faith helps me practice because it guides me in taking care of myself- my own life; so that I can be open to others and focused on their needs- on your individual goals for therapy. I believe that, at our core, humans have the freedom of choice, and as a practitioner it is my responsibility to honor you as a person by respecting your individual autonomy as the foundation for an effective therapeutic relationship.  To put it simply: my approach to our work together will be based on your beliefs, not mine.

I have had success working with people from a wide and diverse range of cultures, faiths, and life experiences, including those who have been hurt by ‘religious people’.  That said, I recognize that as a straight white Christian male I represent a demographic that has caused harm within our culture, the type of harm that causes people to seek counseling.  Feeling safe with a therapist who is aligned with your particular worldview goes a long way towards establishing the chemistry and trust required for a working therapeutic relationship.  There can also be some surprisingly good fruit to be found for those willing to take what feels like risk, but I may not be the best fit for you in your current season with your particular needs.  My goal in writing this, admittedly wordy, exposition is to give you a sense of who I am to help you with your choice.

If you are specifically seeking Christian counseling I consider myself qualified to offer you services in your native language (theologically speaking).  I also recognize that divisions exist within the church and you may have concerns that require further vetting. Therapy is about getting a client’s needs met. I’d invite you to schedule a free consultation and test me to see I am a good fit for meeting yours. 

About me

I’m a husband to an extraordinary wife of 18 years and a father of 4 incredible children. Early in my career I served youth and families as an outdoor adventure guide, leading recreational and therapeutic wilderness trips in remote backcountry areas across the country. What I experienced there would progress and transition into a counseling journey of (almost) 20 years with various placements and partners. I’ve met with church goers and gang members. I’ve sat with children in their foster homes and done exercises with adults in an inpatient facility. I’ve worked to address the needs of refugees and VP’s (in the same day). I’ve also managed to acquire some professional experience in the trades as a mechanic, a builder, and as a maintenance coordinator for a 600 acre retreat center. I volunteer as a snowboarding instructor for our local school’s ski club and as a NICA coach for our area’s youth mountain bike racing team. My family and I enjoy mountain sports, reading, gardening, epicurious experimentation, and any time we can get lost exploring the outdoors. I keep chickens for longer than I should, and I can’t seem to keep bees long enough. I’m of fan of both modern efficiency and vintage craftsmanship. I maintain a very low social profile, and when I’m not supporting our kids extracurriculars I’m probably at home fixing something. My repair to-do list never seems to get any smaller, just less urgent.

Over the years I’ve learned a great deal about how to work on ‘stuff’ – mostly out of necessity. There have been seasons where working in the trades has offered a lucrative reprieve and change of pace, but I can’t help but be drawn towards working with people. Counseling is my default human occupational setting, when I sit in session with people it feels like I’m performing my core function- this is what I am meant to do.

My hope in making these self-disclosures is to provide you with an honest, albeit cursory, understanding of the person you are considering working with to serve as a starting point for an effective counseling relationship. I believe that the practice of counseling can offer support to a lot of people and that there are many trained individuals out there that could help you with your unique needs and goals. If you’re ready, the next step is to request a free consultation using the client portal link and we’ll continue the process of determining whether or not I could be a good fit for you.